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Hubby and I saw this and are embracing this program as a very interesting way to immerse into pegging and submission, or just to have a weekend of fun. With that said, we both agree before starting that you both understand and agree to your roles.  This is not for the timid.  

Being the Dominatrix in a Female Led Household also come with responsibilities. Be ready to impose your decision. This is a little different from traditional pegging play between lovers to one of role playing or role enhancement. 

For your man, being forced to offer himself to you may be a humiliating experience. Since he may resist at first, this multi-day Fantasy is best left to trust, mystery, and an increased intimacy.  There should be NO PAIN.   

Preparation

The very first thing to do is to set the mood for the upcoming role-play.  The best way to do this is to announce your intention at least a few days in advance. Get him to think about it and leave him enough time to get nervous over what you are planning to do. I, personally, would not give him too many details. Just a short statement like: “Better get ready sweetie… next weekend I’m taking your ass”. Let him wonder about the details….

Day 1 

You should start his training on a weekend that’s as free as possible. In those first crucial days you will want to keep him under close control and chastity. This is your road show!  

Try to keep your typical routine but as the evening unfolds, make sure that he can see your new Strap-on sitting in full unhidden view. Tease him about it. Tell him how much you are looking forward to using it on him.

After you both get comfortable, have him prepare a nice warm bath for you. Get him to help you undress and assist you by rubbing your back and cleaning your feet while you relax in the water. All this time, always keep the Strap-on nearby and repeatedly remind him that you will be taking is ass, but not too many details.

Once comfortably refreshed and draped in your sexiest lingerie tell him to get cleaned up and prepped.  Have out an adequate butt plug and a good fitting cock cage.  I firmly believe for this fantasy role-play to be most successful, that your hubby/submissive NOT BE ALLOWED to get out of control by cumming. Hand him the butt plug and some lube before telling him that he is to be naked for the rest of the evening and that he should insert the plug before joining you.

When he is done prepping, have him present himself, and you lock his cock!. At this point you have a few options based on your Female Led Household routine: A good way of releasing some of the nervous tension you may feel is to get him to go down and service your pussy with his mouth (always a winner for me!).

The next step is to order him to get on all fours on the floor and to start playing with the plug he is wearing. Slowly take it out before adding some lube and pushing it back in.

Tell him how exciting it is to finally get to fuck him properly. 

After a few minutes of this teasing foreplay; make him grab the Strap-on. Tease him about holding a cock, have him jerk it, then have your hubby/submissive get his Mistress harnessed with the Strap-on.  

With your new “Girl-Cock” in place, stand in front of him, grab his head, and guide his mouth on to the cock. Order him to lick and suck your cock….  As you

look down at your hubby/submissive, this is a perfect teasing opportunity… Use it to your advantage…  He’s going to become a cocksucker!

When you feel ready to move on; step back and get him to go down on all fours. Position yourself behind him and removethe plug from his ass. Add some lube to the now opened hole and on your Strap-on.

Tell him that it’s now the time for him to become really yours. As you finish speaking; place the head of the Strap-on on the opening and push slowly to insert it by a few inches. It should go in easily after being stretched by the plug. Give him a few seconds to get use to the feeling and then grab his waist and start pushing your Girl-Cock in.

This is a truly magical moment. He has been consumed for days about this; intellectually, physically and at this moment, power is shifting.  You will feel a rush of power that will blow your mind. Enjoy it !

But don’t let him rest for too long. Start pumping his ass and only stop when YOU are satisfied.  Relax, Tease and Stretch is ass!  This should be a firm but loving dominant fucking!

Once you are done riding him for that first time you should direct him to help you out of the harness and have him clean the Strap-on for the next time.

Note: Some woman, even in Female Led Household, like to have their man fuck them after a good pegging. While I agree that it is a great way to add to the fun it is not something I recommend during this exercise.  Time will come later to allow him back into the “penetrator” role. 

If you really need to feel a cock in you it would be better to set the stage by having your hubby/submissive fetch a large dildo and masturbate with your toy.  Make it very clear that you are still the one in control. 

I also like hubby/submissive to put the cleaned Strap-on back on, and have him go down on you while you wear the

Strap-on!  Enjoy your Power!

At bed time the Strap-on stays close by because you are going to use it on him at any time.

Before going to bed, tell your hubby/submissive that you expect to be woken by the smell of a fresh coffee delivered in bed by a properly showered and clean naked husband….

First ride of the day….

As you sip your coffee get him to do something that will please you while demonstrating his submission.  It should be a clear act of submission.  This should be an act of enjoyment for you.  Use your imagination and enjoy the moment….

Again, have your hubby/submissive prepare you with your Strap-on.  Once you are ready to move on, ORDER HIM to bend over and present his backside for your inspection.

Grab his cheeks, give him a light spanking and tell him how much you enjoyed fucking him last night and you are going to do it again this morning.

Because you are a loving partner you should start this second anal invasion with some slow fingering with a lot of lube. Start with a single finger and gently massage his prostate as you move your lonely digit in and out. Once you feel him relaxing add a second finger and keep probing for a while. 

With your hubby/submissive adequately prepared, liberally spread some lube on your Strap-on. Slap and slide your Girl-Cock around his ass teasing him with your power then gently push your full cock into his ass with one single motion.  

Tell him how much you like the way he is taking it all in like a real slut. Start pumping his butt and slowly increase the pace with long strokes. Fuck him good!!!

After a few minutes take a step back and order him to turn around to lay on his back and to hold his legs up in the air.

Position yourself between his legs and enter his asshole with a quick hard push of your hips.  Tell him you are now going to fuck him until his cums.  And yes, he can cum in his cock cage! Under NO circumstances do not stop until he cums, pound him good!  Taunt him! 

Once he has been thoroughly fucked and has cum, have him slide off your Strap-on, clean it, and leave the Strap-on in full view.  It’s time for you to relax with a shower/bath while your hubby/submissive prepares your breakfast.  Don’t let him relax.

Second ride of the day….

After you get out of the bathroom, put on something comfortable or sexy, put on the Strap-on and wearing your new found Girl-Cock, join your man in the kitchen. (Mistress K, given her arsenal of dildos, likes to introduce a different cock here.)

And now you are going to do something that you will most likely find very difficult. You will get him to bend over the counter and fuck him again.

That will certainly come as a surprise for him. It will also start to rewire his mind and lead him on the path to accept that he is now yours to take as you wish.

You may find it hard to do because, this time, you have already taken his butt twice and he should be a little sore from it. And yet, you must resist the reflex of sparing him and go on to fuck him again with your Girl-Cock.

Do it gently and with a lot of lube but do it! He may resist but, in the end, he will bend to your will. Pump his butt slowly for a few minutes before letting him go up to serve you breakfast.

Once you are done leave him in the kitchen to clean up the dishes and the Strap-on. Tell him to leave the Strap-on out.

Over the two previous days you have started to break down your man’s mental barriers and made him feel your power

like never before. You must now push forward to the next step.

From your “arsenal” get an even larger dildo and a ball gag and hide it in a bag or box. Slide into some sexy but comfortable clothing and call your man to join you. Have him bring the current Strap-on. 

Use the first 30 minutes or so to set the mood by having him sit at your feet as you tell him how interesting and exciting it is for you to watch him turn into a real cock-slut. Tell him that you were surprised at how easily he took your Girl-Cock and how aroused he seem to be by this new role.

And don’t forget to tease him about his abilities at giving blowjobs.  Order him to put the current Strap-on on you, so he can practice is oral skills… Watch him and provide guidance on how you would like it to be done.  Complement his skills and how he is enjoying himself. Taunt him about sucking a real cock! Ask him if he would suck a real cock for you.  

With a brief break, make a comment that the current dildo is probably still too small to give him a good experience.  Show him the ball gag and the new dildo. Explain that the ball gag will only be used as needed.  Have hubby/submissive fit the new and larger dildo it to the harness in place of the old one, fit his Mistress with the new Strap-on, and make him service it.

At this point he may be getting really nervous. He will certainly realize that you are not bringing that bigger toy just for some oral play humiliation…. That’s just fine…. You want him to start thinking about the next ride you will give his butt.

But for now it’s his mind that you want to ride. Make him kiss, suck, lick and fail miserably at deepthroating your new Girl-Cock.  Keep telling him how comfortable he seems to be with your Girl-Cocks.  Make him beg for your cock……

Explain to him that just as you enjoy large cocks, so will he.

Have him assume “the position” to get fucked.  With him on all fours and you behind him start with a little butt stretching with your fingers and plenty of lube.

Once he can take three fingers, align your new Girl-Cock on his butt hole and push slowly until the head pop-in. Give him a few second to get somewhat comfortable with it and then resume pushing until you are all the way in. Slowly back off until only the head is still in before, again slowly, going all the way in again.

You should feel his anus get a little more stretched as you repeat the movement. Once you can see that he is taking it smoothly increase the pace and enjoy the ride you are giving him.

As you fuck him make sure to voice your pleasure. Tell him how excited it is for you and how much you enjoy taking him like anal slut he is.

Try to make this ride a very long one. If needed, take breaks to catch your breath and resume the pegging when ready.  If he complains just stuff his mouth with the ball gag, and fuck him harder!  Just a note of caution, be sensitive to “pain” and pleasure.  This is not about pain.  Being uncomfortable is OK.  As needed, have a safe word.

At the end he should barely be able to walk.

Leave him on the floor with orders to clean up the dildo and go take a long relaxing bath….

At the end of the day tell him that you feel really tired.  Have him give you a relaxing massage and now is a time for cuddling and bonding.  The two of you have embraced a new intimacy, challenged each other, and helped reinforce your roles.  

Ahhhhhhh…. The week-end is over and prepare to get a good night’s sleep.  If you are feeling slightly devilish, set your alarm to wake you a few hour searlier than usual and wake him up with a good Girl-Cock fuck!